When is a No Not Really a No?
A No is a No I can just hear a whole bunch of you ready to become keyboard warriors and remind me that a no IS ALWAYS a no and consent is King (or Queen, whichever you prefer). I totally
What Makes Good Pegging an “Art”?
There are many parts to Pegging. Numerous factors converge, and result in a sexual activity that, for many, is quite complex. Exploring those factors can be a rather involved adventure. This is why I call pegging an ‘Art’.
Will Pegging Your Man Cause a Loss of Respect?
First off – an apology for the click-bait title. This piece is indeed about that subject, and of course there is no definitive answer to that question that applies to every person who pegs their partner. But here’s the apology.
Short Takes on Power Bottoming, and How to Reignite the Spark
Welcome to another Short Take! This one has a couple of shares. The first is about dominant/submissive challenges with pegging – power bottoming and how it improved one couple’s pegging dynamic. The second is asking for ideas to reignite the
Can CBD Lube Make Pegging Even Better?
CBD Lube I decided to do some research into CBD lube! The effects of CBD used anally are said to be less discomfort and pain, and more relaxation and pleasure. When I researched lube products that contain CBD, about 70% of
Find Your Joy Amidst the Chaos of the World
Many years ago I was on a women’s getaway trip in Cambria, California. Back then there was a place called Seekers Glass Gallery that I visited every time I was there. For me, the experience of being in that shop
The Surprising Intensity of Allowing Someone Into Your Body
Men who are interested in pegging are sometimes quite startled by the experience itself. Why? There can be a few reasons, but I want to talk about this one: the surprising intensity of the act. Sometimes porn arouses a man’s
Pegging Preparation is More Than Cleanliness, Lube, and Foreplay
Let’s talk pegging preparation. When you first begin to explore pegging, preparation is essential. Sadly, few people go further than cleaning out, sufficient lube, and making sure the ass in question can accept the toy being used. Questions like the
Of Soft Cocks, Men, Erections, and Life
(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there are different combinations of orientation and gender identification than the generalizations I used here.) When
What’s Up (or Down) With a Directional Toy?
What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter,
With Thanks – All of My Affiliate Connections
With thanks, I offer you my list of affiliate links. When you shop using these links, it helps support my mission of bring pegging information to everyone who seeks it!
Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity
Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called ‘virginity’. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but
Short Take on Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms
Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms! Articles and Information In this short take you will find an attempt at crowdsourcing for a gentleman who had a depth play injury at the rectosigmoid junction. He also had a horrible experience with
My Bodacious Tatas – the Movember Reward!
Are All Tatas Bodacious? I like to think so. We are not all audacious about showing them off, but they are bodacious just the same. And never was there a better reason for showing them off than my Movember fundraiser!
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